Well after all this time, I finally decided to stop using stops.....or at least a tight one. Things work so much better if you allow the trade room to breath. To be fair, I still have a disaster stop but its so big it feels like no stop.
Its only been a few days and I'm a bit jumpy with it and that bit me in the ass today but overall it is very freeing.
Lets see how it plays out going forward.